John Giordano
World Trade Center
John Giordano, 47, of Newburgh, New York, a fire fighter for Engine 37, Haz. Mat. Battalion 11, 3rd Division, FDNY, New York City, lost his life while saving others on Tuesday, September 11, 2001, following the disaster at the World Trade Center.
Mr. Giordano was among 343 brave and heroic firefighters who raced toward pending disaster with only the welfare of their fellow citizens on their mind. But, Mr. Giordano stood as more than that to his family, who bravely cope with a loss few of us can ever imagine. A year ago this article was published in the recordonline.com.
Everything in Jonathan Giordano’s life pivots around Sept. 11, 2001, the day his father, John, died. Jonathan was 14.
John Giordano was a member of the Fire Department of New York’s elite Hazardous Materials Special Operations Battalion, 3rd Division. He was among the first at Ground Zero.
“Everything of who I am is because of that — whether it’s good or bad. I’m not the same person. It’s who I am.”
He’s 21 now, a senior at Mount Saint Mary College. At a time when other young men his age are leaving home, Jonathan Giordano is still a regular presence there. Home in Newburgh is where his family is and, as it’s been since that terrible day, Jonathan’s struggled to be there for his sister, Jessica, his brother, Jordan, and their mother, Roxann.
At the age of 14, tragedy cast him as the man of the house.
“Do I feel I have to live up to him? Absolutely. It’s something I think about every day — how I live my life to what he was.”
It’s a role Jessica and Jordan recognize and obviously love him for.
Jessica was 11 when it happened. She was Daddy’s little girl. If she got in a fight with Jonathan, all she had to do was bat her eyes at her father and she’d win the decision. They used to watch Disney movies together. Get real goofy and make drums out of the kitchen’s pots and pans.
When she recalls what he was able to do at home, despite the demands of his job, her voice fills with amazement.
Jessica, who wants to pursue a career as a teacher, is a freshman at the Mount. She knows she can rely on her brother, at school or at home.
“I know he’ll give me away when I get married.”
Some things even Jonathan can’t manage. Jessica wishes her dad could have met her boyfriend.
Her brother, Jordan, sits next to her on the living room couch. He, says Jessica proudly, has inherited her dad’s “genius gene.”
“He plays guitar — so did my father. He plays soccer, basketball, baseball, karate …”
“And football! I’m going out for football this year,” Jordan added. “I’m a fifth-grader, but I’m smarter than a fifth-grader.”
The fondness Jonathan and Jessica feel for their younger brother is palpable. He was 3 when his dad died. There are still gaps in his understanding of the family history.
He’s shocked to learn that his dad was an Eagles fan. “I thought he was for the Giants!”
He was, Jessica tells him. But he loved the Eagles’ music.
Jordan’s experience as a champion Lego builder has convinced him he wants to be an architect when he grows up.
But even here, in the midst of a boy’s dreams, the Twin Towers cast their shadows. Only a few days ago, Jordan watched a TV documentary about the towers’ questionable construction.
Jonathan Giordano wants to take a firefighter exam. He wanted to be a firefighter even before 9/11.
But he’s not sure if he can follow that dream.
He leans forward on the edge of the couch, kneads his hands together and takes a moment to speak.
“I’m gonna need to decide. It’s like, I’ll never know. If my family had to go through the same thing, I couldn’t do it.”
We honor the bravery and sacrifice of John Giordano and thank his family for the gift they gave us. We wish them comfort in knowing their father was an extraordinary man.